Hidden Doors

This post is an Sentiment of Life brought about by some conversations with my mom and friends from the last few days, and I thought this post could be of use for all those who are seeking riches and happiness,     :D


Sentiment of Life (05.31.2011)

Sometimes, what you are looking for is literally right in front of your eyes. A multiple of closed doors, but yet hidden in the shrouds of one’s outlook of the world.

People always dream of winning the lottery, but most don’t realize that 100 million dollars stands right before them. Not in the sense of monetary value, but in doorways and opportunities that are missed every single day.

People always dream of the perfect relationship, the perfect guy/gal, but sometimes, while dreaming, they forget about the perfect possibilities that surround them.

There is such a thing as a perfect relationship, but not in the way many people think.  True perfection in a relationship surpasses personality, outshines looks, and circumvents the physical realities that surround the two lovers.

The keys to every dream and aspiration, whether it be a riches or a relationship, hinge on the decisions one makes. Many times, these keys lie before your very eyes, in the most conspicuous of locations, just waiting to be taken. I can tell you from experience, one who attains the keys to the beat-up door that no-one dares go near, may have their very reality transformed forever with riches and happiness on the new road they walk.

For just as in business, while more risk can bring about greater defeat, more risk can make success just that much more worthwhile. 

Conflict Resolution

Sentiment of Life (05.28.2011)

The purity of rational shall always prevail over the fallacies of anger and conflict.

Say Subject A curses you out, calls you names, and insults you:

What If 

You DID NOT respond angrily, yell at him back, or even deny his rhetoric

What If 

You said Thank You and then became silent? How Would Subject A React? 

Eventually, Subject A would realize that he is not receiving a reaction and stop yelling.

With no response, Subject A was never yelling even at you but alternatively taking out his frustration at the non-existent whisper of the air that surrounds him.

Yes, I will agree, anger and conflict are unavoidable. However, your reactions signify the difference between a wildfire and a small spark.  

Sentiment of Life [Love Edition]

I have witnessed many interesting revelations this week on the theories of love. I warn, I am no expert, but below are my external observations that at least some of the world may agree with.

Sentiment of Life (05.24.2011) [7 Love Quotes]

1. Never can one predict the turmoil’s and satisfaction of relationships.

2. Never can a relationship or love be predicted as the stock market. There are no calculations, no equation for success, no rational, it’s a go with the flow analysis where the unexpected may just surprise you.

3. To confess your feelings to the one you are crushing on, will earn you 50 bonus points in the game of love. 

4. Next time, a person asks you out, tell the him/her a straight answer, because personally speaking, think about how you would feel, if you had to wait for an answer, hoping it was yes, but all along it was no. Does this feeling not hurt?

5. Consider this, after getting rejected evaluate was your crush really good enough for you, or could you do better?

6. With every rejection comes an even greater potential for growth

Finally, to top it all off.

7. NEVER rate the girl you like if you are going to tell her an answer that would question her outlook on herself, her beauty and her confidence in one shot. Not even Will Smith from Hitch can fix that situation.

In fact, it’s probably not wise to rate anyone on a numbering system at all, lol.

Defeat: In Perspective

Today’s Sentiment of life relies on the Aspect of Defeat.

This post is a philosophical inspiration that has enabled me to overcome some small defeats of my own last week. I suffered a huge set-back, which would have made many people frustrated, and depressed. Honestly, I was depressed for approximately three hours. However, as I compared the loss in perspective to my personal victories I have attained overall, this issue became a figment of pointless thinking.

Sentiment of Life (05.12.2011)

A defeat is resemblance of what you will it to be. If you take defeat into the perspective of your numerous victories, than is defeat really a loss? Or just an obstacle you need to overcome to arrive to your next destination.

Remember, obstacles make us who we are destined to be, victories are the products of our perseverance over such challenges. 

The True Persona of Human Rational

This week, I have been trying to decipher the secret to the decisions one makes and its reliance on their personality. This sentiment of life is designed to represent my thought patterns and conclusion for this methodological question.

Sentiment of Life (05.05.2011)

Always view ones persona as a subjective pretext to their true nature.

Many times the way one acts is not just an aura of colors, sounds and actions. It is not as simple as vision itself. 

One’s persona in actuality, is a true entity of one’s experiences, the self-aspiration that lies in the mirror, an inconspicuous shroud for the persona one may fear themselves.

The above is not designed to be a negative nor positive analogy of human rational, but more so a sentiment of life that is designed to open up one’s thinking, one's understanding and most importantly ones compassion to the diversity that enshrouds everyone of us in our everyday lives.